Finding it difficult to meet our financial commitments can be stressful, worrying and, at times, overwhelming. It may even feel as though there is no solution.
In reality, however, the earlier we take action, the more options we are likely to have. Over-indebtedness is not something we have to face alone, nor is it something to be ashamed of. It can happen to anyone, particularly when unexpected life events affect their financial circumstances.
The important thing is not to ignore the problem. Small, realistic and well-planned steps can help us gradually regain control and improve our financial situation.
- Stay Calm
- List Our Financial Obligations
- Prioritise Essential Household Needs
- Reduce Non-Essential Spending Temporarily
- Avoid Taking on New High-Cost Debt
- Do Not Avoid Contact with Creditors
- Check Whether We're Eligible for Social Support
- Take Action Before the Problem Gets Worse
- What We Should Remember
When financial commitments begin to pile up, it is natural to feel under pressure. However, decisions made under intense stress are not always the most effective.
Rather than trying to solve every problem at once, begin by gaining a clear understanding of your current financial position.
💡Understanding our financial situation is always the first step towards improving it.
Gather all information relating to our debts and financial obligations in one place.
For each commitment, note:
- the total amount outstanding;
- the monthly repayment amount;
- the interest rate;
- the payment due date;
- any missed or overdue payments; and
- the lender or creditor involved.
Next, record:
- all sources of household income;
- essential monthly expenses; and
- discretionary spending.
This will provide a complete picture of our financial situation and help us plan our next steps more effectively.
💡 Example:
Maria believed that she owed around €8,000. When she gathered all the relevant information, she discovered that the total amount was different and that two smaller debts had been overlooked. Having a complete overview helped her organise her priorities more effectively.
When available funds are not sufficient to cover every financial obligation, it is important to ensure that the essential needs of the household are met first.
These include:
- housing costs;
- food and groceries;
- electricity;
- water;
- essential medication; and
- necessary travel to work or school.
Meeting these basic needs helps protect the wellbeing, safety and dignity of everyone in the household.
Once essential expenses have been covered, consider whether there are areas of spending that can be reduced temporarily without significantly affecting our quality of life.
For example, we can reconsider:
- subscriptions that are no longer being used;
- frequent purchases of takeaway coffee or meals;
- entertainment services; and
- discretionary purchases that can be postponed.
This does not mean giving up everything we enjoy. The objective is simply to create greater financial flexibility until our situation stabilises.
💡 Example:
Nicos cancelled two subscriptions he no longer used and reduced the number of meals he ate out for a few months. He used the money saved each month to make additional payments towards one of his financial commitments.
When facing financial difficulties, taking out another loan can sometimes seem like an easy solution.
However, borrowing at high interest rates or with significant fees can often make the situation worse by increasing both the overall cost of debt and the financial pressure you face.
⚠️ Important:
If we find ourselves borrowing repeatedly to repay existing debts, we may be entering a cycle of debt. In this situation, it is usually better to explore options with our lenders rather than taking on additional financial commitments.
When struggling to meet financial obligations, it is understandable to feel embarrassed, anxious or fearful.
However, avoiding communication rarely improves the situation and may allow problems to become more difficult to manage.
Open letters and emails relating to our finances, and contact our lender or creditor as early as possible.
In many cases, there may be options available that can be considered before significant arrears arise.
💡 Example:
Anna informed her bank as soon as she lost her job temporarily. By communicating early, alternative arrangements could be explored before additional payment difficulties developed.
During periods of financial hardship, it is important to remember that support schemes and assistance services may be available.
Depending on the circumstances, information and support may be available from:
- the Social Welfare Services;
- the local municipality or community authority;
- community food assistance programmes;
- the Cyprus Red Cross;
- church-based or other voluntary organisations; and
- other relevant public or community support services.
This temporary assistance may help households meet essential needs and ease financial pressure while working towards a more stable situation.
The longer we delay dealing with financial difficulties, the greater the risk that interest charges, fees and financial pressure will continue to increase.
By contrast, taking action early often provides more options and greater flexibility, making it easier to gradually restore financial stability.
Every small step in the right direction is an investment in our future financial wellbeing.
✔️ Over-indebtedness is not a personal failure. It can happen to anyone.
✔️ The first step is to gain a clear picture of our financial situation.
✔️ Essential household needs should always take priority.
✔️ Temporarily reducing non-essential spending can create valuable flexibility within our budget.
✔️ Do not ignore communication from lenders or creditors. Early communication may help identify possible solutions.
✔️ Taking action promptly increases the likelihood of regaining control of our finances.
👉 What's next…
The steps outlined above can help stabilise the situation in the short term.
In the next article, we will explore how to set priorities, choose a debt repayment strategy and monitor progress step by step as you work towards financial recovery.
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